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I want you to envy me…

Posted in Muslimah PoweR, Precious Possessions, Vaccinations for Dunia on March 30, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

“You should not envy anybody except for two: a man to whom Allaah has given the Qur’aan, so he recites it night and day, so that another man says, ‘If I were given what he has been given I would so the same as he does’; and a man to whom Allaah has given wealth, so he spends it appropriately, and another man says, ‘If I were given what he has been given I would so the same as he does’.” [Reported by al-Bukhaari, 6974]

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Effect of a Righteous Woman

Posted in Muslimah PoweR on March 30, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

“A righteous woman with a man is like a great gold-leafed crown on the head of a king, and a bad woman with a man is like a heavy weight upon an old man.” [Ibn Abî Al-Shaybah, Al-Musannaf article 17428.]

Tabarruj: ‘Beauty on Sale’

Posted in Muslimah PoweR on March 29, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

A MUST read for all, especially Muslim women:

The ruling on Tabarruj (Display of Beauty).

If you don’t want to read it, then don’t say on the Day of Judgement that you didn’t know!

And Allah SWT knows best.

Cuteness Extreme

Posted in Muslimah PoweR, Naseeha Notes on March 12, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

May Allah SWT bless the Shaykh and the children.Ameen.

I think these videos are at the peak of cuteness mashaa’Allah. I couldn’t find proper references of ahadith but there are so many which show how Rasulalah SAW played with children. The ahadith are so beautiful and they make Rasulalah SAW even more of a great Prophet…an adult who valued children’s emotions despite being so busy in his mission.

Usamah ibn Zaid (may Allah be pleased with him) narrates:

Allah’s Messenger used to put me on (one of) his thighs and put Al-Hasan ibn `Ali on his other thigh, and then embrace us and say, “O Allah! Please be merciful to them, as I am merciful to them.” [Bukhari]

It’s Sunnah to express your love for children, whether they are yours or others. Try it today when you visit the Masjid. This is especially for brothers because we as sisters don’t find it difficult to lift and hug kids. I think it’d be a challenge for us not to do any of that. As we do this, we can make the intention of following the Sunnah and doing that act -which most of us naturally do-would become a means of reward inshaa’Allah.

And Allah SWT knows best.

Taqwa, a Solution for Everything

Posted in Muslimah PoweR on March 6, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

Thought I’d paste the whole article here and reference it for safe-keeping inshaa’Allah. Have read it many times myself :) Just a request: please share it with everyone you know…esp. your female acquaintances. I know there are millions who are suffering from hunger. And there must be billions suffering from emotional setbacks. Everyone you talk to has a story and is suffering. What’s even more strange is that the problems are similar but nobody addresses them…everybody hides them under the carpet…so inshaa’Allah please try to reach out to people’s hearts thru this article. And if you have time, please leave feedback for the writer because writers need to feel that their efforts are not in vain even though they make themselves vulnerable through their writing for the sake of Allah SWT only. JazakummAllahu khayran. Mending someone’s heart is like helping to heal a bird’s wing, once it’s back to normal, like the wing…the heart helps one to fly to Allah SWT’s Pleasure. That’s just my opinion and Allah SWT knows best.

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A short night,

a heavy heart,

The list is long,

O Rabb! From where do I start?

~

You know it all,

You know what I hide,

So heal me Ya Rahman,

and let this pain subside!

~

I’m that little girl,

whose world was candy and dolls,

I’m that very girl whom You taught

how to walk after many falls.

~

I turn to You now,

Much stronger than before,

Please do not desert me tonight,

for I love You to the core!

~

“Whoever finds comfort with Allah finds unwholesome the company of anyone else.”

~

Things happen. They always do. You had planned otherwise but Allah subhaana wa ta’aala has planned better things for you. The brother may have all the qualities you were looking for but it just didn’t work out. Or that degree you worked so hard for didn’t land you a job. It is possible that someone, with whom you planned to stay forever and raise children, left you stranded. Maybe you have difficult parents who just do not understand. Funds might be lacking and there’s a household to run. Grades are not what you want them to be in order to get into a certain professional school. Someone dear to you passed away or you just lost the “apple of your eye”, your little angel whom you had to bury with your own hands.

It hurts. I know it does. Nobody said that it doesn’t and nobody said it’s not going to. It’s what means you take from here on that matter. You may think it’s unfair but this is what Allah subhaana wa ta’aala says:

These are the Verses of Allâh: We recite them to you (O Muhammad SAW) in truth, and Allâh wills no injustice to the ‘Alâmîn (mankind and jinn all that exist). [3:108]

These all are lessons to make you see what you could not see, to clear the fog from that lens which could focus only on the dunia and not to make you grieve. That wasn’t the intention at all, dear Muslimahs:

…There did Allâh give you one distress after another by way of requital to teach you not to grieve for that which had escaped you, nor for that which had befallen you. And Allâh is Well Aware of all that you do. [3:153]

 Some of us may not understand what to do next and we may get stuck in the abyss of hopelessness because we no longer know how to fulfill our needs. How do we call onto Allah subhaana wa ta’aala to help us? What changes do we make in our life so that He subhaana wa ta’aala is pleased and grants our duaas?

Duaa is like a weapon, and a weapon is only as good as the person who is using it; it is not merely the matter of how sharp it us. If the weapon is perfect and free of faults, and the arm of the person using it is strong, and there is nothing stopping him, then he can lay waste the enemy. But if any of these three features are lacking, then the effect will be lacking accordingly. [Ibn al Qayyim]

My dear sisters, we must really internalize that He is our Lord and we are His slaves. If He wishes, He has the full capability to keep His blessings away from us. Yet He subhaana wa ta’aala doesn’t do that. Allah subhaana wa ta’aala has provided us with a solution that will take care of all our needs in this dunia and Akhira. It is that thing you hear in almost every Friday Khutbah and lecture. It is that beautiful provision of Akhira which makes you independent of His creation but so very dependent on Him. Do you know what that is?

A man once came to Hasan al Basri (Rahimullah) and sought help from him in financial matters. He (Rahimullah) replied, “Have Taqwa of Allah Subhanahu Wa’Ta’la! I haven’t seen a Taqi (one who has Taqwa) who is in need.”

What is Taqwa really?

The Arabic word taqwa comes from the root word ‘Waqi’ (wow, qaaf, ya) which means to build a shield or a protection against something. Taqwa is, therefore, the feeling that saves the person from sinning: (1) out of fear of punishment and (2) resulting in the slave always being conscious of his actions.

Imagine this world and Akhira as a huge grocery store where only Taqwa is accepted as the currency. You can only buy what you need through Taqwa. Why not then adopt the Taqwa lifestyle?

It has multiple benefits and there isn’t even an electron’s weight of loss. Some of the few benefits of the Taqwa lifestyle are as follows:

1. Antidote for loneliness and lack of love. Adopt taqwa and He subhaana wa ta’aala promises you His love, His friendship, His companionship and His protection:

Yes, whoever fulfils his pledge and fears Allâh much; verily, then Allâh loves those who are Al-Muttaqûn. [3:76]

2. Do you have a lot of problems in your life? Embrace the Taqwa lifestyle and you give yourself the promise of the One who never breaks His promises:

And whosoever fears Allâh and keeps his duty to Him, He will make a way for him to get out (from every difficulty). And He will provide him from (sources) he never could imagine. And whosoever puts his trust in Allâh, then He will suffice him. Verily, Allâh will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allâh has set a measure for all things. [65:2-3]

3. It’s not your education, house’s architecture, ethnic affiliation and definitely not your job that makes you honorable. It’s only Taqwa that adorns you with honor and, hence, status!

O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allâh is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa [i.e. he is one of the Muttaqûn. Verily, Allâh is All-Knowing, All-Aware. [13:13]

4. Sick of bad news around the world and in your life? Taqwa ensures good news of this world and HereAfter:

Those who believed (in the Oneness of Allâh – Islâmic Monotheism), and used to fear Allâh much (by abstaining from evil deeds and sins and by doing righteous deeds). For them are glad tidings, in the life of the present world (i.e. through a righteous dream seen by the person himself or shown to others), and in the Hereafter. No change can there be in the Words of Allâh, this is indeed the supreme success. [10: 63-64]

So with so many benefits, what’s stopping you from adopting the Taqwa lifestyle? Throw away the pile of worries and heartache. Your new lifestyle doesn’t have room for junk. Join me on my journey of success, a journey of Taqwa inshaAllah! Success is not what you own outside of yourself. Success is what you own within yourself.

Verily, for the Muttaqûn,there will be a success. [78:31]

May Allah subhaana wa ta’aala soothe our hearts and give us a glorious end in Jannatul Firdaus as we tread the path to Taqwa. Ameen.

P.S. Next article: How do we adopt Taqwa in our lives? Stay tuned.

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Source: Habibi Halaqas

Halal Cruise: Dream Come True?

Posted in Muslimah PoweR on February 25, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

Check it out here: Salaam Cruise

You know what to gift your Ahl if you’re a brother.

And sisters, you know what to ask for in Mahr.

[sisters: only   j…o…k…i…n…g. Invest money in Hajj prep first.]

And Allah SWT knows best.

‘Not So Valentine’ and Other Things

Posted in Muslimah PoweR, Naseeha Notes with tags , , , on February 15, 2011 by Ibby'sMom

On the same note: I’m planning or I think it’s better to say that I have planned to work on a post regarding ‘offspring’ bi’itniAllahi ta’la’. That’s because I’ve had countless people who’ve searched for ‘dua for offspring’ being directed to my blog. YES! I do have a duaa for the offspring and that’s from the Quraan and not fabricated mumbo jumbo. Obviously some people already know that.

I’m just glad that with tons of wrong information on the internet, people got directed here. Alhamdolilah. But I also know people resort to practices non-Islamic to fulfill their desire to have children. I do know the biology of what cells are used etc. for such practices which makes it clear why some of the new technologies are haram but I’m not going to dwell on such things since I feel incompetent in the Islamic perspective on it. You’d have to be a Faqih for it. For quick reference, you can search on a website totally dedicated to Muslimah motherhood called, Mum Loves Me. This website has a few sections/articles just for members so I take no responsibility for what’s in them since I am not a member or even a regular reader. Also, some people end up doing Shirk in the process of their duaa being accepted. Very problematic. SubhanAllah.

In my post, I’ll deal with not what you can do medically but rather what you can do spiritually to obtain any type of Rizq, including lovely kids, inshaa’Allah. All in the context of Quraan and Sunnah.Despite having a strong scientific background (and inclinations), I personally believe many diseases/illnesses/deficiencies can be sorted out by removing spiritual diseases/illnesses/deficiencies and using authentic Prophetic medicine. Just need that conviction which is lacking in many of us.

Why am I saying all this in this post? I like to commit myself publicly so that I feel ‘pressurized’ to actually get to write a post. It’s been on my mind. So many things are. Never get the chance to do it.

Ok that’s that.

Please do remember to recite the duaa that Sh. Navaid Aziz mentioned with utmost conviction. It is useful for everyone because all of us fall either in the category of married (and so need to work on our marriage) or some of you may fall in the category of ‘looking-to-get-married’.

Wasalamu alaykum warahmatullah,

-UmmS.